It might sound like it does not make sense and scary. But, motherhood is not a bed of roses and you will have to do a lot of sacrifices and self acceptance. It is like a maze or a puzzle that just gets more complicated as soon as you feel like you had unlocked the puzzle. It is like a change of expectations. All your life, you would have been helped and people would have directed you towards the right path. But, when you plan to start a family, you are actually devoting yourself to be the guide nd help another human being. It would be a hypocritic methd, if you say you are not ready because think what would have happened if your mother had thought the same?
Pain is the maintin problem during pregnancy. Your gynoecologist would direct you to an obstetrician, who will give you these meds for esssential vitamins and minerals. Any kind of pain or discomfort felt during the three trisemester should be reoprted to the doctor. There might be some restrictions when you have a male doctor. So, always try to go for a female doctor. But, if you are pretry confident about yourself and talking to opposite sex then go on with a male doctor.
When you feel nausoeous, try lying flat on bed or smell a lemon. They would help you to control vommitting or dizzy spells. If you have any kinds of blood discharge it is highly important to go show it and ask your doctor for advice. You can go to private hospitals like obstetrician Norwest private hospital, since they will help you more and they are actually not doing anything free of charge , they can b held mpre reliable and can be the faced by law suit, if there is medical malpractice or medical neglience. Since, it can be considered as criminal act which means it is the crime against the state.
Apart from all these, massages would help the pain. Or you can also try hot water tub relxations and meditating things like that. When you are regnant, you should never miss the check ups and make sure you are maintain proper weight. During pregnancy it would be better to do some exercises and k=stay fit. You should make sure to f=take in calcium rich food and foods which are help in lactation of milk. It is going to be a rough road to motherhood but it is going to be worth all the sleepless nights, pains and everything!